Thoughtful Hostess Gifts That Go Beyond the Basic Bottle of Wine
Being a modern hostess is no easy feat. Between juggling guest lists, perfecting cocktail recipes, and making sure no one finds the secret stash of snacks (or worse, the overflowing laundry basket), she’s practically a superwoman. So, when it comes time to pick out a gift for the woman who can throw a dinner party in her sleep, you’ve got to bring your A-game. A bottle of wine is nice, but it's not quite enough to say, "I appreciate your ability to keep it all together while making it look effortless."
This guide curated guide will help you level up your hostess gifting game for all those last minute invites coming your way. From items that add elegance to the party, to those that might even make her life easier, we’ve got options that’ll make her feel like she’s winning at life, one perfectly plated hors d'oeuvre at a time. Whether she's into minimalist chic or loves a good pop of color, we’ve got a variety of gifts that scream, "I know you’re a total pro at this."
So, grab something from this list and get ready to see that hostess smile. Who knows—maybe you’ll even get an invite to the next dinner party! (But no promises.)
Shop thoughtful hostess gifts:
1. Alloy Napkin Holder, $39.99
This elegant napkin holder is a true standout, effortlessly enhancing the presentation of cocktail shrimp with its refined design. Its sleek and stylish appearance adds a touch of sophistication to any setting, making it the perfect complement to both casual and formal occasions.
2. Queenza Brown Marble Salt Cellar, $21.99
For the minimalist hostess, who incorporates everyday items into her decor, this salt cellar is the perfect addition. It looks stunning placed right on her counter.
3. Amagic Glass Flameless Candles, $21
These battery-operated candles are perfect for setting the mood without the risk of a flame. They look stunning in both the bathroom and bedroom.
4. Lysenn Coupe Glasses, $40
Take your bubbly game to the next level with these elegant French coupe glasses. Known for their timeless charm and vintage flair, they are currently all the rage, making them the perfect addition to any celebration or stylish gathering.
5. Savor: Entertaining with Charcuterie, Cheese, Spreads and More! ,$12
Cheese spreads are my go-to for last-minute get-togethers. They're quick, simple, and always beautiful, making them the perfect solution for entertaining on short notice. This book offers a variety of creative ideas that will inspire you to elevate your spreads and impress your guests with ease.
6. Ridhi Steel Blue Cloth Napkins, $25
I’m completely obsessed with the idea of using cloth napkins. They bring a traditional, sophisticated touch to any meal, and not only do they elevate the dining experience, but they’re also a far better choice for the environment.
7. LA JOLIE MUSE Sandalwood Rose Candle, $19
I absolutely love giving scented candles as gifts, especially when they come in a beautiful jar that can be repurposed after the candle has burned. They make for a thoughtful and practical gift, adding both fragrance and style to any space.
8. Secura Electric Wine Opener, $23
Say goodbye to struggling with wine corks, or worse, having them break inside the bottle. I was gifted one of these last year, and it turned out to be the perfect present—practical, thoughtful, and incredibly useful.
9. Anthropologie Cut Glass Candle Holder, $48
For the maximalist and art-loving friend whose home feels like stepping into a gallery, this is the perfect gift. It transforms any space, and candlelight dinners are instantly elevated to a whole new level of sophistication and charm.
10. Sipwell Wine Co. Gift Pack, $48
This female-founded and Black-owned canned wine company offers award-winning, sustainable wine in infinitely recyclable cans. It's the perfect gift, especially the sparkling gift pack when paired with the elegant coupe glasses you also gifted, creating an effortlessly chic and eco-friendly way to enjoy wine.
11. Anthropologie Benedita Bow Ceramic Stoneware Platter, $48
This bow-detailed ceramic platter from Anthropologie makes the most unique gift that will elevate her platter game. It’s such a fun and whimsical way to present apps and small bites, and your hostess will think of you each time.
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